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It's Holiday Season, a time to relax and celebrate with family and friends. Take time to browse and share our selection of new books, magazines and audio-visual material that are listed below. Here you'll find information about library resources for parenting, from childbirth to adulthood. We love to hear from you if you have any questions or suggestions to make.

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Books of interest

Syndetics book coverTeen talk - parent talk : a common sense guide to raising your teenager / Sharon Witt.
"It has been said that it takes a village to raise a child. In that case, it takes an entire city to raise a teen! Parenting a teenager can have its challenges, however, the good news is that you are not alone in your parenting journey and there is an abundance of collective wisdom that we can draw on. In this common sense guide, teen author and educator Sharon Witt shares her many years of experience immersed in teen world and offers sound, practical advice and strategies to help you better understand your teenager, including: * understanding how teenagers are wired* practical advice for helping your teen develop a positive self-image* navigating the cyber world* practical strategies for coping at High School* how to deal with the puberty blues and managing your teen's health" (Global Books).

Syndetics book coverMum & baby : together we learn / Jan Murray.
"Parenting babies and toddlers isn't always easy? Parenting is a journey with much to learn Read what my life was like raising babies and toddlers when I was a new parent. Learn what I could have done better, had I done what I know from experience now. My story will make you laugh, cry and learn what you could possibly be doing better in the many challenges that you face" (Global Books).

Syndetics book coverJo Frost's Confident Toddler Care / Jo Frost.
"Jo Frost's steady handed approach to raising toddlers is an indispensible manual for these sometimes trying years. It covers all the important topics, such as potty training, mealtimes & tantrums etc and presents a clear action plan for each occasion. It focuses on issues such as working parents/guilt, discipline, healthy eating/portion sizes, transition from bottle to cup, potty training, sleep problems" (Amazon.co.uk).

Syndetics book coverBringing up bebe: one American mother discovers the wisdom of French parenting
"Living in Paris has allowed American journalist Druckerman (Lust in Translation) a riveting glimpse into a calmer, rational, sage way of raising children. With three children of her own, all born in Paris and happily bilingual, Druckerman wanted to find the key to forging the well-behaved youngsters she witnessed in parks and restaurants-infants who sleep through the night at two months, children with table manners, who don't interrupt adults or eat between meals. It starts, apparently, with calm, sensible French mothers, who don't become enormously self-indulgent during pregnancy, but quickly lose the baby fat after birth and rarely breast feed. The French health system helps by its generous maternal and child-care policies. Babies are treated as rational creatures, expected to "self-distract" in order to fall asleep (Druckerman calls the essential lapse in response time "La Pause"), and wait to eat when everybody else has their meals, four times a day, including the 4 p.m. sweet time called le gouter. Instead of rushing to satisfy or stimulate a child a la Americain, the French are keen on aiding kids to discover on their own, developing autonomy with the help of a cadre, or frame, which is firm but flexible. Citing Rousseau, Piaget, and Francoise Dolto, as well as scores of other parents, Anglophone or French, Druckerman draws compelling social comparisons, some dubious (e.g., Frenchwomen, unlike Americans, don't expect their husbands to help much with housework, thus eliminating "tension and resentment"), others helpful (insisting that children try new foods at each meal to broaden their palates), but she is ever engaging and lively to read. (Feb.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.(c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved" (Publisher Weekly).

Syndetics book coverGrandparents : enjoying and caring for your grandchild / Miriam Stoppard.
The definitive guide for new grandparents covering 0-3 years. Pregnancy and parenting guru Miriam Stoppard, a grandmother herself many times over, offers indispensable, unpatronising advice on everything from learning and play to weaning and allergies to bedtime routines and sleep training. This practical how-to manual reminds grandparents of essential babycare skills while updates explain how medical and babycare procedures have changed since they raised their own children. (Syndetics)

Syndetics book coverGrowing great families / Ian & Mary Grant.
"Ian and Mary have studied the keys to healthy functioning and fun filled families through years of teaching parenting throughout NZ and Australia. They believe that 'family is everything' and emphasise that a family is a community and that this is the key to growing great families. Children need to know the security of a family operating as a team and receive the joy in their everyday experience of being contributors, not just takers. In this way children will experience real intimacy and emotional safety. Whatever we parents honour or treat as sacred or special, our children will also honour, whether that is the TV, regular family times or sport. Consequently this book is a call to refocus on what it is to create a family, to look again at what we are honouring in the little community we call our family and to think about our ultimate goals for the individuals and their relationships. Growing great families covers the following topics: being a parent in the world we now inhabit; building the foundations; what makes a family into a community; moulding big personalities into a family; life-defining values; two pillars of great families - fun and communication; and moving from dependence to interdependence. Once again these successful authors offer us great parenting skills that any family can use effectively, with great practical advice - including smart strategies, action labs and chapter summaries" (Global Books).

 

Collection Highlight

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The following title is available as an ebook.

Fragile / Lisa Unger.
"In this stunning new stand-alone psychological thriller, Lisa Unger examines the small town secrets exposed when a teenager goes missing in circumstances similar to another young girl's disappearance twenty years before. "But how do you know he didn't hurt her?" Jones asks his wife, Maggie anguished when their son's girlfriend, Charlene, vanishes. Eerie parallels soon emerge between this disappearance and the abduction that shook their community years ago. Maggie can hardly believe that her husband, a police officer, suspects Ricky of causing Charlene's disappearance. Ricky is his father's son in all the most important ways and she suddenly realizes that might be exactly what Jones fears. In a town where the past is always present, nobody is above suspicion, not even a son in the eyes of his father. Determined to uncover the truth, Maggie pursues her own leads into Charlene's disappearance and exposes a long-buried town secret-one that could destroy everything she holds dear. This thrilling novel about one community's intricate yet fragile bonds will leave readers asking, How well do I know the people I love? and How far would I go to protect them" (Drawn from publisher's description).

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Sound & Vision

A selection of DVDs and Audiobooks is held in the Central and branch libraries covering topics relating to parenting and families. At the Central Library, they are located in the northwest corner of the ground floor. Following are some suggested titles:

Mother and child [video recording] (2011) A film by Rodrigo Garcia
"Three women's lives share a common core. They have all been profoundly affected by adoption. At age fourteen, Karen placed a baby for adoption, and has been haunted ever since by the daughter she never knew. Elizabeth grew up as an adopted child. Even though she is a bright and ambitious lawyer, she is a flinty loner in her personal life. Lucy and her husband are just embarking on the adoption odyssey, hoping for the opportunity to become parents." (Cover)

A father's love: one man's unrelenting battle to bring his abducted son home [sound recording] / By David Goldman & read by Ken Abraham (2011)
"The founder of the Bring Sean Home Foundation advocacy group for parents of internationally abducted children describes how his Brazilian wife unexpectedly returned to her native country and refused to share custody of their son, triggering an international controversy" (Cover)

 

Useful Websites

General Parenting

  • Family & Community Services
    New Zealand Government website providing information on raising children, child development, nutrition, family finances and more.
  • Plunket
    A great resource for information on car rental schemes, Plunket line, clinic and marae visits, parenting education and antenatal classes.
  • Family Advice from Barnados NZ
    Parenting advice and resources relating to most aspects of family life

Education/Information

  • Childcare online
    New Zealand site, contains information and news on parenting.
  • Foodsafe
    New Zealand Foodsafe was set up in 1998 with a small group of representatives from the food industry, consumer groups, public health groups, MAF Food (now the New Zealand Food Safety Authority) and the Ministry of Health, to promote consistent and appropriate food safety messages to New Zealand consumers. The group's aim is to reduce the country's high levels of foodborne illness through education on safe food handling practices in the home.
  • Kids Friendly NZ
    New Zealand's Online Magazine for families living and travelling in this country. The site provides detailed information covering local activities in Wellington and right throughout New Zealand.
  • NZ Kindergartens
    Everything you need to know about kindy, with links to other websites, discussion groups and parental information.
  • Te Kete Ipurangi, The Online Learning Centre
    TKI is a bilingual portal-plus web community which provides quality assured educational material for teachers, school managers, and the wider education community. It is an initiative of the Ministry of Education. Parents are partners in the learning journey of their children. The Ministry of Education has a range of materials and information for parents to assist them to work in partnership with their local education centres and schools. This site provides many links to information and materials that may be of interest to parents.
  • WCC Community Directory
    Links to community and information groups around Wellington, including heath, child-care, women and recreation.

Support / Advice

  • Community Law Centres
    Services for people with unmet legal needs and who cannot afford legal services. They also provide legal advice and assistance and in some cases representation in court, law-related education, information and also law reform and advocacy on behalf of communities. This site has a national list of Community Law Centres.
  • Learning and Behaviour Charitable Trust NZ
    This site is designed to give you the information and resources you may need if you know someone with a learning or behaviour difficulty such as ADD, ADHD, Aspergers, Autism and Dyslexia.
  • NetSafe
    Netsafe provides advice on keeping your kids safe online. This organisation is co-sponsored by the Ministry of Education.
  • NZ Association for Gifted Children
    The Association exists to promote the needs of gifted children at national level and support and foster initiatives at local level which meet those needs.
  • NZ Down Syndrome Association
    The NZDSA offers new parent support, activities, family events, guest speakers and individual support and advocacy, a newsletter and information packs.
  • New Zealand Speakeasy Association
    A support group for people who stutter. This site includes; descriptions and causes of stuttering, tips for parents, therapy, support and contacts.
  • Sands
    A New Zealand site for parents and other family members dealing with the loss of a baby through miscarriage, stillbirth or new born death. It includes advice on how to get through the first few days, arranging a funeral, parent's own stories, newsletters and will soon have a list of Wellington Bereavement Councillors.
  • Rescare NZ
    Supporting carers of people with intellectual disabilities.

Government

  • Family & Community Services
    New Zealand Government website providing information on raising children, child development, nutrition, family finances and more.
  • EdCentre
    A portal designed to help parents find information held on 28 education government websites belonging to seven education agencies such as Career Services Rapuara, the Education Review Office, the Ministry of Education, and the New Zealand Qualifications Authority.
  • Strengthening Families
    Strengthening Families provides coordinated support for families who are working with more than two government agencies. Agencies and families work together to develop joint solutions, rather than each agency dealing with one part of the problem and never seeing the bigger picture.
  • Education Review Office
    The government department which reports publicly on the quality of education in all New Zealand schools and early childhood services, including private schools, kura kaupapa Maori (Maori language immersion schools), special schools and nga kohanga reo (Maori language early childhood groups).
  • Employment Relations Service
    Information about the rights and obligations of employees and employers in respect of parental leave, incorporating recent changes to parental leave entitlements. Features section on determining your leave entitlement, and IRD forms.
  • Special Education
    Ministry of Education page.
  • Work and Income New Zealand
    Information on Community Services Cards, Domestic Purposes Benefit, Help with Child-care Costs, the Domestic Purposes Benefit and other assistance.
 

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